What’s Age got to do with it?

At what age is age important?

I say you’re too young, with a reply of … that doesn’t matter.

Yeah, I’m thinking it does.

I see older men younger women all the time. Sure that he must have money stigma is there but they could actually be in love right? Now the other way.. why is that different?

However, why are there so many men, young men out there asking older women out? What’s happened? Did I miss something? A friend is widowed (it’s been like 5 years, so don’t judge) and loving her new found freedom. She says the young guys want older women because they are confident and not looking for a sugar daddy. Ok but are the guys looking for a sugar momma? Lol.. ahh the other side of the story.

Now the amazing opening was in Spanish and you all know that my language is sexy.. with all due respect I find you so beautiful. Really? I’ve known you about a year.. didn’t see that coming, then the offer was a star filled night talking about things we don’t understand. Damn it… do you know me? Lol

Then the actual problem.. yeah, I’ll not get into all that.

Nothing a little month nap and some outdoorsy stuff can’t fix. Let’s steal away and watch a sunset.


Come and see.. wait, you’re here 😉



If I be wrong

What lovely a song

The lyrics the instruments even the video. Which I rarely watch. it’s just an all around sensory overload of love and beauty.

What if I’m wrong, what if I’ve lied
What if I’ve dragged you here to my own dark night

If I be wrong, if I be right
Let me stay here in your arms tonight




This song…

All the deepest secrets
All the darkest moments
Oh, I promise they’ll be safe with me
We’ve all been broken
There’s no exception
But you carry it so gracefully

The piano, the song.. just beautiful


Hello my old heart

Ahh the Universe…

Always sending the perfect songs at the perfect times….

Nothing lasts forever
Some things aren’t meant to be
But you’ll never find the answers
Until you set your old heart free

Doors close, so new ones can open.

Isn’t it lovely?




Sooo today..

Is this the beginning of a new chapter. I’ve no feelings. Like none. Been betrayed and left. Yet the only feeling is freedom. 🤔 is it goodness? Is it just today? I hope it lasts.


Me myself

Yup just me myself and I… it’s funny because I thought I couldn’t live without you… yet that’s all I’ve done.


The song? Not completely fitting but yet there it is. Catchy tho… 😏

I did not need your help
Now it’s just me, myself, and I (la la lie la la lie la lie lie)


So it goes, on and on

Life just keeps rolling along.

Like it or not.

You know how they say it’s the little things?

It is, they just add up.

Like everything, just adds up. Your only choice is to keep going on your own steam.

You know I tried so long
Every time I thought I found it, I was wrong

I am the love of, the love of my life



I am!

Carry on?

How does one move on?

One foot in front of the other as before. I suppose.

This world is a lonely place, especially when you’re on the inside looking out. Smile and everyone will think you’re ok.

Is it even real?

In a time of grief…. You see things even clearer. ( is that a word?)

Wish I could trade places….

I miss you more than life…