What’s Age got to do with it?

At what age is age important?

I say you’re too young, with a reply of … that doesn’t matter.

Yeah, I’m thinking it does.

I see older men younger women all the time. Sure that he must have money stigma is there but they could actually be in love right? Now the other way.. why is that different?

However, why are there so many men, young men out there asking older women out? What’s happened? Did I miss something? A friend is widowed (it’s been like 5 years, so don’t judge) and loving her new found freedom. She says the young guys want older women because they are confident and not looking for a sugar daddy. Ok but are the guys looking for a sugar momma? Lol.. ahh the other side of the story.

Now the amazing opening was in Spanish and you all know that my language is sexy.. with all due respect I find you so beautiful. Really? I’ve known you about a year.. didn’t see that coming, then the offer was a star filled night talking about things we don’t understand. Damn it… do you know me? Lol

Then the actual problem.. yeah, I’ll not get into all that.

Nothing a little month nap and some outdoorsy stuff can’t fix. Let’s steal away and watch a sunset.


Come and see.. wait, you’re here 😉




I love Tyler Perry movies..

Today I watched Diary of a mad black woman, for the upteenth time. Love it.. In his movies karma and forgiveness play a big part and this one is no exception.

For some reason today it was even more meaningful than anytime before.

If I ever loved you, I will love you always. I mean what I say and it’s been a hard pill to swallow that others don’t.

Missing something inside but, knowing that God has this, is everything. The rapture of being alive.

Peace and so much love on this Easter Day..


If I be wrong

What lovely a song

The lyrics the instruments even the video. Which I rarely watch. it’s just an all around sensory overload of love and beauty.

What if I’m wrong, what if I’ve lied
What if I’ve dragged you here to my own dark night

If I be wrong, if I be right
Let me stay here in your arms tonight




This song…

All the deepest secrets
All the darkest moments
Oh, I promise they’ll be safe with me
We’ve all been broken
There’s no exception
But you carry it so gracefully

The piano, the song.. just beautiful


Hello my old heart

Ahh the Universe…

Always sending the perfect songs at the perfect times….

Nothing lasts forever
Some things aren’t meant to be
But you’ll never find the answers
Until you set your old heart free

Doors close, so new ones can open.

Isn’t it lovely?



Me myself

Yup just me myself and I… it’s funny because I thought I couldn’t live without you… yet that’s all I’ve done.


The song? Not completely fitting but yet there it is. Catchy tho… 😏

I did not need your help
Now it’s just me, myself, and I (la la lie la la lie la lie lie)


How it feels

How does it feel?

Going through daily motions, when it’s obvious that it’s the last thing a person wants to do.

Maybe a good disconnect… or reconnect? Ha!

It’s a terrible thing to waste.

My first song choice fell away as soon as this came on.

Because seriously you don’t know how it feels, until it’s you.

 Let me run with you tonight
I’ll take you on a moonlight ride

… There’s someone I used to see
But he don’t give a damn for me

… But let me get to the point, let’s roll another joint
And turn the radio loud, I’m too alone to be proud
And you don’t know how it feels
You don’t know how it feels to be me

Yup a song for everything….

✌️ 🖤

The feelings of a song

It’s a beautiful thing how music can take you to a place inside. Music… the only thing that doesn’t let you down..

This one takes me back to walks in the beautiful city of Hollister CA. My gut telling me what I already knew. Listening to it brings it all back. That gut knows!